That was advice I never recall hearing unless it had to do with any behavior I might be engaged in that was objectionable to the advice giver(s).
I never heard many things. That explains an incessant drive to learn.
Those pursuits have not always been in the mainstream. That cost me family, friends and whatever experiences I would have had with them.
But I did get a kaleidoscopic cache of deep, caring suggestions like the one that titles this blog entry from other interactions along the way.
And those became the seeds that sprouted into our coaching framework, MTCoaching. Guided by the maxim "less effort, better outcome".
Now that's good advice!